Where did the last two years go? I haven’t written much during the pandemic but I believe we all got lost in the fog these past few years. Now that the world is hopefully getting back to normal, it’s time to write again.
I wanted to fully explore my relationship with the narcissist in my life and hopefully offer some insight as well as get some ideas from others.
This summer I decided to reduce contact as best as I could taking into account the times my path crosses his due to common social connections. I let him know he won’t be seeing me much and that seems to have brought out the ugly side of him. More criticism when he’s not giving me the silent treatment and just general unpleasantness. I don’t know if he’s angry that he’s losing control or that he’s been defeated by me, but there has been a definite shift in his behaviour.
Now that I am focusing more on myself, I will make more time to add posts and share my journey, and hopefully I will be able to report he is gone for good.
Thanks for reading, stay well.
Liz
The Betrayed Widow 